i really love my gf...but she is damaging my...

[J-luvr]

...relationship,how do i break up with her? what can i say to her to break up the relationship in the nicest way possible???

[LauraLynn]

Just be honest. Good luck!

[naughtycat]

What relationship is she damaging? Your post needs more clear information.

[kingofcalabasas]

just do it

[Ro-Z]

Just be honest and tell her how you feel. I know it sounds kinda plain but sometimes just talking to her about it helps. Tell her you care about her but you feel its just not working out and you don't want to be with her because in the longrun it'll hurt more if you break up with her when its too late.

[St. Louis Girl]

Be honest first and foremost, and do it sooner than later. This is the best way to do it in the long run, even though it is hard at the time.

[Mark K]

If she loves you its going to crush her no matter what you say.Try this.." I'm so very sorry to have to do this...but its just not working out..please forgive me"Then tell her how much you'de like to stay just friends

[kristine]

if you love her then why would you break up with her?don't just break up with her. talk over it first about what's been bothering you. there's a lot of room for improvement for both of you if you'll talk over it (i think)..

[rpetch007]

sorry.but i wish we could break up ...please as i feel your to good for me.. hope this helps...

[ajacx]

love is something to be honest...you can't keep saying that you are happy with her...eventhough that will hurt her...you must be yourself or will in pain forever and ever and you will damaged your own life then....think about it....