first time sex-need some info?

[Pixie-Flames]

i'm 19 and my bf is 23.we've bin together 2 yrs and i'm redy to give him the precious gift of my virginity.he isn't a virgin and i know he'll b very gentle with me.we've planned protection(I'm on the pill and we have condoms).I know that there can b pain and bleeding when the hymen breaks.I just want to know how bad the pain is and wat it feels like....i dnt know what to expect...i've never used a vibrator or anything like that.....1 hour ago - 3 days left to answer. Report It

[Pottie]

No one cant describe it because it is different for everyone...Just go slow .. and gentle ... and use lube to help...Good luck..:)

[NickelN9ne]

Well... im not a girl or anything... but poor guy 2 year without ANYthing? lol just playing... but I have a bunch of lady friends that have told me the first time is always gonna hurt... now.. u said u have never used a toy before... hmm... Thats a tough one... Not sure about that... well I also heard that u don't always bleed either(mainly cause it could be broken already not a lot of blood flow in that area. I heard it was very little blood anyway. IT is not like gonna go everywhere like people have said that has happen. Of course have a towel under u just in case...

[Becci]

Ignore the horror stories, it's really not a big deal. There was no blood for me. The pain is more than bearable - but don't expect it to be the best sex of your life!

[Wendy L]

Well this is gonna sound kinda weird but the pain will partially depend on how big he is and how tight you are. If he's a bigger guy then it'll hurt kinda bad but if you're tight and he's a bigger guy then it's gonna hurt very bad (personal experience. lol) But if you aren't very tight and he's not too big then it shouldn't be too bad.

[-Alexandra-]

use a dildo... helps alot... is like doing with the thing... but i dont think it'll count as losing your virginity...

[Dr.M]

Of course, usually first time is hurt. But practice make perfect. :D
The most important thing is have some opening ceremony first. It can help to get into track more easily.
Good Luck!