View Full Version : When did I most likely get pregnant?
Chi_QueenK
10-06-2007, 12:26 PM
I had unprotected sex on the 13th and 14th day of my cycle. On the 14th day, my boyfriend ejaculated. Then, late that night I took the first dose of the Plan B pill and the next one the next day 12 hours later. Then 2 days later, my ex boyfriend and I had sex. He said I had nothing to worry about, meaning he didn't ejaculate inside me, but I later found out that he did. Is it more likely that the Plan B didn't work, or that I got pregnant from my ex? I also had sex again with my boyfriend later that week, but we either used a condom or he withdrew. I would just like to know who is more likely the father. I called the Plan B hotline, but they told me "Nothing is 100 percent," about their pill, but they think I most likely got pregnant from the sex after I took the pill. But, I was thinking since I was most fertile the first time, fertilization could have occured before I even took the first pill. And would I still ovulate after taking the pill?
*j-LyNn*
10-07-2007, 08:34 AM
Not to ignore your question but if you have a boyfriend, why are you still messing around with your ex? Your ex is probably having sex with other girls and now with you which puts you at a GREAT risk of contracting an STD.
JACKiiE
10-08-2007, 05:48 PM
like they said nothing is 100 percent effective and truth be told if your going to have sex with more than one guy it would be wise to use protection not only because of pregnancy but also because of std's.
Teadles
10-10-2007, 04:43 PM
Really sperm can live inside the body for a week so who knows. Ya know preg. isn't the only thing you have to worry about when having unprotected sex. Probley shouldn't have A. had un protected sex B. Shouldn't be sleeping with more partner.There is know way you will know now without a DNA test. they can't be that exact with a 2 day window.
sahjmom
10-13-2007, 08:19 AM
Do you not know the meaning of NO!?You should refrain from all sex or relationships until you get your head on straight and figure out if you're having a relationship or being a sex figure to any boy who responds to your wiggle. Now you've got a baby and who's going to support you or the baby for the rest of its life? You'll have to get a paternity test and go through the legal system for child support. For now, don't fret about who's the father, think about how you're going to manage a pregnancy. Make sure you go to all your doctor appointments because you don't want a baby who's HIV positive or sickly.
mythoughts
10-13-2007, 06:48 PM
Well if you had sex on your fertile day with your boyfrien then it is most likely your boyfriends baby. The Plan B obviously didnt work at all. The pill doesnt prevent ovulation it does something to your uterus to keep the baby from implanting itself. More than likely it`s your boyfriend but I would keep my fingers crossed and hope the baby looks like you
canam
10-14-2007, 04:20 AM
Who you are pregnant by could only be known by a dna test. Just so you know "withdrawing" is not a birth control method. We use to call it "dry docking". Prior to ejaculation, sperm can come out and you can become pregnant. In the future you might want to pay more attention to birth control, and stick with one man at a time.
sumnerrain
10-14-2007, 04:42 PM
I was most fertile on the 24th day of my cycle, so unless you are taking ovulation prediction kits I would not trust that you ovulate on day 14. I think in this case, not even an ultrasound measuring the size of the fetus can accurately tell you who the dad is since they can be 5 days +/- in measuring size. The only thing that will tell you who the daddy is, is a paternity test after the baby is born. Be honest with BOTH men and do not tell one or the other that he is the father until you are 99.9% sure by an accurate DNA test.
CUTIEQ84
10-15-2007, 01:16 AM
Be up front about it and have a paternity test. They do them while your pregnant and after. Up to you. Also I think it's the ex's baby. Nothing except abstinence is 100%. So it could, slight chance, be the boyfriends. But don't lie about it before you know because then neither will believe it's their baby and think it's someone elses. That's why I say be honest from the get go. Hope it works out for your baby's sake.
sensational79
10-16-2007, 06:54 PM
he lied to u!! dump him
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