My xbf claims to have small cell squamous lung

[skennish777]

cancer, not the skin cancer kind, HELP??? But he's also a pathological liar and he was going to jail for domestic violence against me and my girls and he had a piece of paper written on a prescription pad, saying what cancer he had., with a doctors[oncologist] He was happy telling me he had 'about' 5 yrs to live unless the cancer had spread, as he said most of these cancers do. I don't know if he faked this to get out of going to jail or not. I called the place where he got radiation and he did have an appointment there, also did have appt. for chemo. When I would hug him, he'd say'Not too hard, it hurts' Huh? Is that normal for lung cancer?I just wonder if I'm getting played here. How could his lawyer bring a false paper into court? At first I thought skin cancer but I saw his chest and not a mark on him, just little pen marks where he said the docs marked where they would radiate him. Also he would walk to his appts refusing any help. Not even out of breath. Yet would sit by me in church and be out of breath. AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH

[Felisha_RN]

This can be true. This is a serious type of lung cancer and the marks on his chest are from radiation treatment. They mark exactly where they willl radiate him. As far as his history of abuse against you I am sorry to hear that, but for your own piece of mind you need to find a way to forgive him, so this does not eat you up, especially if he dies. I was in an abusive relationship myself years ago, and I can tell you in order for you to move on you have to forgive, that does not mean go back to him or let him play on your sympathy. Tell him your sorry for him being ill but you will not go back to that way of life with him. Glad to hear the church part, that means you can pray for him and pray that you can forgive him. Good luck and God bless you.