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Valentia
02-09-2008, 11:18 PM
I am 13 and in love,and he said he'll wait for me . i just moved so i have been used to dating but now i am not allowed because they are very christian and so is the guy i like.he says we shouldnt date behind their backs and i agree,also he likes having years of friendships before dating and ive known him 7 months and liked him 2 months.I want to keep him interested in me and feel like i cant wait that long!it could be years..but i know ill have to.HELP!!!(he is 15)

Chelsea E
02-10-2008, 01:06 AM
Honey, I wasnt allowed to have a bf till i was 15 but i starting dating when i was 13. I am 13 right now.

sarahD
02-20-2008, 05:09 AM
I too wasnt allowed to date i started at twelve yes behind parents back. Im now 16 with a good boyfriend kind and generoud it wasnt the guy i was waiting for guys tend to say alot of things but always tend to screw you over. But i could be wrong. I have been through many things, and a major heartbreak at 14 and i was young i honestly think you should wait not date behind your parents back and if he dont wait for you them well it wasnt ment to be you will find better in time. If he does wait then well good for you :).

Maya
03-04-2008, 06:15 PM
well the better you know him the better will be good for you ,don't just jump in hurry a true friendship is better,know each other better and after some time when you grow up and you can deside whether to choose him or not.don't make decisions in hurry.I married a man after 5 years of friendship.

sazine
03-14-2008, 10:17 PM
its kinda hard.try to maintain good friendship with him.

Sizzler
07-07-2008, 06:50 PM
Its too early for you to love i dont think that its love its just attraction. If you are confident that you are really loving him and you can do anything for him and you have faith on him then go on your way and i think he is right you should follow him there are so many days left for you to enjoy dont worry